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Elust 193

January 18, 2026

Welcome to Elust 193

Cover image courtesy of Circe.

Elust is the only place where the smartest and hottest sex bloggers are featured under one roof every month.

Whether you're looking for sex journalism, erotic writing, relationship advice, or kinky discussions, it'll be here at Elust.

Erotic Non Fiction

Morgan Destera, A Little Sex

A woman discovering new desires later in life, where curiosity about her own body opens doors she didn’t know she was allowed to enjoy.

Femina Viva, Love, submission, and are these my demons?

An intimate reflection on how love, submission, and identity unfold over time, messy, emotional, and deeply embodied.

Tantric Sexual Healing, Tantra against optimisation and the refusal of efficiency

A slow, deliberate take on tantra that values patience, restraint, and staying with sensation rather than rushing toward an outcome.

Kristina J, He Thought He Was Leading, Intimacy, Control & Desire with Kristina J

A soft power exchange where control shifts through presence and timing, not force or performance.

Awakening Your Inner Essence, Tantric Massage and Sexual Energy: Releasing Performance and Feeling Alive

A gentle reminder that pleasure deepens when you stop trying to do sex properly and start listening to what your body wants.

Tantric Connections, Why Your Fears could be Guarding Your Pleasure

An exploration of how fear and arousal often rise together, and what can happen when you breathe instead of pulling away.

Thoughts & Advice on Kink & Fetish

Chastity Cages, How to Introduce Chastity to Your Partner (Without the Awkwardness)

Supportive guidance on talking about chastity as a shared curiosity rather than a demand or shock reveal.

Mx Valentina, This is Not Kink: How Feminine Authority Rewires the Nervous System

A personal look at power as something felt in the body and nervous system, not just acted out in scenes.

Denying Thumper, 2025 by the numbers

A detailed glimpse into a chastity dynamic where structure, routine, and commitment shape everyday life.

Erotic Fiction

Fern River Club, Margot hosts (Part 2)

Slow-burn erotic fiction where desire unfolds through confidence, attention, and unspoken understanding.

Simone Francis, The Artists’ Model

A sensual moment of being seen and chosen, where maturity and self-assurance create the real charge.

Sex Work

Sex Worker Search, Ur Little Secret Privacy Policies

A useful breakdown of how a new directory approaches verification and data safety for providers.

Adam Black, Why become a kinky high-end male escort?

A thoughtful explanation of how kink, emotional awareness, and reliability come together in professional intimacy.

Oz Bigdownunder, Nightclub Upskirting Perv Gets His Comeuppance

A light-hearted punishment fantasy mixing humour, wrestling, and consensual humiliation.

Hellga, Ball Busting

That's gotta hurt. My post.

Sandra, Double Penetration with a Man and a Dragon

An honest, playful account of using a very large toy, good positioning, and enjoying the sensations fully.

Product Reviews

Lushense, Original & Innovative Pleasure Toys Unveiled Part 2

A fun roundup of creative toys designed for comfort, curiosity, and exploring pleasure in new ways.

Books and Movies

Liz Black X, Need a Vacation - Surrender to the Bliss Liner - The Complete Paradise Punch Trilogy is Live

A glossy sci-fi erotic story where control and transformation blur into indulgent surrender.

The History of BDSM, CSI S11E14 “Sqweegel”: The Celluloid Dungeon

An interesting cultural look at how fetish imagery gets framed as unsettling or dangerous in TV drama.

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