Elust 195
Welcome to Elust 195
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State of the World
Fapspins, Are Webcam Sites Anonymous for Viewers? A Practical Privacy Checklist
Breaks down what “anonymous” actually means in practice. You’re hidden from other users, not from the platform, your ISP, or payment systems. It explains what gets logged (IP, device, behaviour), how accounts change that, and why payments always leave a trail.
Erotic Fiction
Fern River Club, After the Come-In (Part 3)
Continues the slow-burn storyline with photos from a public sex event circulating between characters. There’s a mix of awkward conversation, voyeurism, and people clearly getting turned on reliving what happened.
Thoughts & Advice on Sex & Relationships
Tantric Sexual Healing, Tantra and the Architecture of Intimacy: Rewriting Love Beyond Possession, Identity, and Fear
A long, theory-heavy piece arguing that jealousy and attachment aren’t natural but shaped by culture, economics, and religion. It reframes relationships as something built on awareness rather than control.
Awakening Your Inner Essence, When Betrayal Becomes Arousal: Understanding Erotic Survival Through a Tantric Lens
Explains why arousal can show up around painful experiences without meaning desire or consent. Frames it as a coping mechanism rather than a kink.
Femina Viva, Submission need not be weakness
Personal journey through identity, gender transition, and power dynamics. Moves from seeing submission as shame or apology to reframing it as devotion and intentional choice.
Erotic Non Fiction
Morgan Destera, The Spirit Is Willing, Part Two: The Flesh is Weak
A meetup that doesn’t go quite to plan because real life gets in the way. Illness, fatigue, and timing cut into things, but there’s still connection and effort on both sides.
B R Saiph, Locked on the Precipice of Permanence: Her Decision, My Submission
Looks at long-term chastity taken to extremes and the physical consequences that come with it. The dynamic shifts from fantasy into something more permanent and serious, forcing both partners to reassess.
Product reviews
Liz Black, Hands-Free Pleasure: A Closer Look at the VVD Rider Desire & Rider Go (Plus Exclusive Discount!)
Detailed breakdown of a ride-on machine setup with interchangeable attachments. Covers build quality, how it works, and what it actually feels like to use.
Spices of Lust, Lovense Gush 2 Review
Focuses on a wearable device designed for targeted stimulation rather than full stroking. Strong on app control and long-distance use, but fit and positioning matter a lot. Good option if you’re into teasing and drawn-out sessions rather than quick finishes.
Sex Toy DB, Saddle Sex Machines or Sybian Alternatives: What Are They, and Which Is The Best?
Compares the main brands in the category and what you’re actually paying for. Big, loud, expensive machines built for intensity rather than subtlety. Useful if you’re deciding between brute force, app features, or something smaller and more practical.
Sex Work
Rogue Love Escapades, What’s in a name? The inspiration behind Rogue Love Escapades…
Backstory of how a provider moved from a domme persona into a more balanced offering. Combines edge with warmth rather than going all-in on one style. Mostly branding, but gives a clear sense of what to expect from a session.
Sex Worker Search, Interview With YAS Work
Covers changes in strip clubs over the past couple of decades, especially around social media, working conditions, and organising. Makes the case for better treatment without trying to shut the industry down. Straightforward and grounded in real experience.
Danny Gold, Anal Therapy
Mixes practical advice with personal experience around anal play. Emphasis on relaxation, trust, and getting out of your own head rather than forcing it. Comes across as confident and experienced without overcomplicating things.
Adam Black, Choosing the right hotel for meeting an escort
Practical guide on picking the right setup for a session. Focuses on privacy, space, and atmosphere rather than luxury for its own sake. Makes a good point that the room can make or break the experience.
Oz Bigdownunder, London Eye View MMF Couple Sex Marathon
A high-energy threesome with a couple who know what they like.
Ellie Hart, Why Emotional Intelligence Is the Most Attractive Quality
Argues that awareness, restraint, and reading people properly matter more than looks or confidence. Focuses on how good interactions feel rather than how they appear.
Sandra, A Massage with a Twist
Starts as a standard girlfriend experience and quickly turns into something much rougher once the client drops the act.
Hellga, Sara Graduates Sissy School
A+
Mx Valentina, 113. Beyond the Veil: The Existential Architecture of Mx Valentina
High-end domme meets therapist meets witch.
Books and Movies
The History of BDSM, High Maintenance S03E05 “Payday”: The Celluloid Dungeon
BDSM is normal, but money becomes the real power struggle.
Blogging
Sinclair Sexsmith, Announcing: The Inner Circle Sessions (Patreon Workshops for 2026)
Kinky discussion group and writing workshop for people into D/s and erotica.